Common threads that keep us all connected and leading to what needs to be completed to keep us feeling the solidarity with our stable links in society. A common thread is important to feel a meaningful relationship for who has come into our life. Needing to stop talking some time to listen to what has to be said without judgment to try to understand what keeps some of us so divided. Without listening and trying to divide what should bring us closer, we will not know why we seem to need to compare complaints and not listen to how we are all connected through the difficulties that we face. Trying to understand each other without tones of disgrace is a good start to keeping up with teachings of compassion.